There is a lot of speculation about the word trust and deliberate. In almost all cases, trust is confused with faith. To have faith is one thing, to have trust is another. Faith is directed outward, built outside of us, and based on others’ experiences and achievements. Trust is directed inward, built within us and personal experience and achievements are based. When we are not moving anywhere and do not want to know anything about ourselves, the meaning of words is not important. We can think and talk indiscriminately whatever comes our way. However, when we want to have clarity about ourselves and the world, every word matters. We need to be careful about what we think and say. In this regard, we need to be careful about what phrases we use. The combination of „trust in someone“ is incorrect and pointless.

Let’s use one principle when we have something that we assume is unknown. We have the phrase „We trust in someone“ where the alleged unknown is „trust“. We replace „trust“ with „gold“ and get „We have gold in someone“. The first question is why is our gold in someone and not in us? Especially when we need it ourselves. As it is extremely rare for someone to keep something alien, „We lost trust / gold in someone“ happens. And since these phrases are about believing in someone, and therefore expecting dividends from our faith, the loss is painful. And the pain is as great as the investment. And it’s the same as losing something valuable.

However, trust is an inner achievement, just like love. In order to build trust, you need to work hard, make an effort. It does not come for nothing. Or if it comes by accident, it goes away quickly and quickly. Trust is unconditional because there are no external supports, conditions and reasons. It is greedy because we expect nothing from anyone and nothing can disappoint us. This is exactly what happens when we fall in love. Everything looks beautiful to us. But soon the defense mechanisms against trust and love begin to work in us. If we want to remain lasting in love, we must have destroyed all these protections first.

To trust also means not to interfere in the work of others and not to obstruct them. Because everyone is moving on his or her own path in life and it is up to him or her to choose whether to go his or her own path or to draw it himself. Jealousy is also a serious barrier to trust. The important thing is to pay attention to what we do with a person when we are together, not what he does when we are not together. Everyone is free to do whatever he sees fit. For example, if we are talking to someone, only the conversation between us is important. The other is not obliged to talk to us alone. When our conversation is over, he can go talk to someone else or do whatever he wants. Jealousy does not allow this, especially if the other is our close friend, spouse or spouse …